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How To Eat Pussy: Unforgettable Cunnilingus Secrets

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20

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English

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1. Preparation is Key

  • Communication: Before you even think about getting started, it’s essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Ask them what they enjoy, what feels good, and if there are any specific areas they want you to focus on. This not only builds trust but also enhances the experience for both of you. You might say something like, “What do you love when I go down on you?” or “Is there anything you’d like me to try?”
  • Hygiene: Cleanliness is crucial for both comfort and pleasure. A shower together can be a fun and intimate way to ensure both of you feel fresh. You can also use this time to explore each other’s bodies, which can heighten arousal. If your partner has any preferences regarding scents or products, be sure to respect those.

2. Setting the Scene

  • Comfortable Position: The position you choose can greatly affect the cunnilingus experience. Here are a few popular options:
    • The Classic: Have your partner lie on their back with their torso propped up on pillows. This allows them to see you and feel more engaged. Position yourself comfortably between their legs, ensuring you have good access.
    • The Recliner: Your partner can sit on a chair, couch, or bed while you kneel in front of them. Elevating their hips with a cushion can provide better access and comfort. This position can also allow for eye contact, which can enhance intimacy.
    • Legs Up: Have your partner lie on their back with their legs raised. You can hold their knees or spread their legs to the sides. This position gives you excellent access and allows for a variety of techniques.

3. Starting Off

  • Foreplay: Before you dive into cunnilingus, spend time on foreplay. This can include kissing, caressing, and teasing. Focus on erogenous zones like the neck, inner thighs, and breasts. The goal is to build anticipation and arousal, making your partner more receptive to oral stimulation.
  • The Kiss: Start with gentle kisses around the vulva. Use soft, lingering kisses to create a connection. This is similar to how you would kiss your partner on the lips, but with a focus on the sensitive areas. This initial contact can help your partner relax and get into the mood.

4. Pussy Eating Techniques to Try

  • The Flick: Once you’ve warmed up, use your tongue to flick up and down or side to side on the clitoris. This technique can be very stimulating, but it’s important to check in with your partner about the intensity and speed. You might say, “How does that feel?” to gauge their response.
  • The Suck: Gently suck on one of the labia, pulling it softly. You can also create an O shape with your lips around the clit and suck it in to create a vacuum sensation. This can feel incredibly pleasurable, especially when combined with gentle tongue movements.
  • The Buzz: Make a buzzing sound with your lips while stimulating the area. This technique can add a unique sensation that many find pleasurable. The vibration can enhance the experience and create a different kind of stimulation.
  • The Lick: Use long, slow licks along the outer and inner lips. This is a great way to explore and gauge your partner’s reactions. Pay attention to their body language and sounds to see what they enjoy most.
  • The Blow: Instead of direct contact, blow gently on the clit to create a cooling sensation. This can be a delightful contrast to the warmth of your mouth and can heighten sensitivity.
  • The Nibble: Use your teeth very gently to tease your partner. Nibbling on the labia or inner thighs can add an exciting element, but always check in to ensure they enjoy it. You might say, “Is this okay?” to ensure they’re comfortable.

5. Pay Attention to Responses

  • Listen to Your Partner: Pay close attention to their body language and sounds. If they seem to enjoy a particular technique, continue with it. If they seem uncomfortable, adjust your approach. Remember, every person is different, and what works for one may not work for another.
  • Ask for Feedback: Don’t hesitate to ask your partner what feels good or if they want you to change anything. This can enhance the experience for both of you and make your partner feel more involved in the process.

6. Experiment and Explore

  • Mix It Up: Don’t be afraid to try different techniques and rhythms. Variety can keep things exciting and pleasurable. You might alternate between fast and slow movements or switch between different methods to determine the best response.
  • Use Your Hands: Incorporate your fingers to stimulate the G-spot or other areas while using your mouth. Just make sure to keep your nails trimmed and clean. You can use a “come-hither” motion with your fingers to stimulate the G-spot while your mouth focuses on the clit.

7. Aftercare

  • Check-In: After you’re done, check in with your partner. Ask how they felt and if there’s anything they’d like to try next time. This can help both of you learn and grow together in your sexual experiences.
  • Cuddle and Connect: Spend some time cuddling or just being close. This can enhance intimacy and connection after such an intimate act. It’s a great way to wind down and enjoy each other’s presence.

Final Thoughts

Remember, the key to great cunnilingus is communication, exploration, and attentiveness. Take your time, enjoy the process, and don’t be too hard on yourself. 

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